Can We Get Married? Episode 12

Lani

Now as far as DB goes, I'm with KJ here. I don't believe her when she did the random 180 and decided she loves JH. I think that's her transferring her emotions to another place because she wasn't getting any loving from KJ. I hope that ends soon because Dong Bi's attitude is escalating so quickly it's hard for me to look at her with the same undivided support as before. I'm sure KJ will wake up now and try to win her back, and, honestly? I hope he succeeds. It's natural to think that DB and JH work better as a couple because they get along better. Keep in mind that 1) they're friends. 2) JH sees her as a BROTHER. 3) JH still has feelings for HY. 4) If they ever do date, trust me, they would fight, too. Every couple has their fights, and they make up because staying together seems better than being apart. (Hence why JH and HY break up and make up as often as they change shoes).

Lani

Since DB wasn't drunk, if they DID have sex while JH was in a vulnerable as anything state (plus he was plastered), I would say she took advantage of him. You do lack coherency and reason when drunk. You could turn around and say, "But he shouldn't have drank then." That doesn't mean anything because he went to DB's because she trusted her. Being taken advantage of doesn't only apply to females.

Lani

he trusted her***

totvornottotv

she knew jh would go out after her and try to explain the situation then she waited for hy to calm down alittle went to her school and tried to rationally explain to hy exactly what happened if the situation had been reversed with hy and dong bi in bed together do you feel jh wouldve reacted so impulsively without at least listening to the two people you are supposed to be the closest with your fiance and bf now she should know the personality of her fiance well enough to trust he would never have cheated on her infact she broke up with him because of her own insecurities hy asks for trust from jh when she repeatedly lies about her history and yet dosent believe jh when he ALWAYS TELLS HER THE TRUTH with regard to the friendship thing in a breakup i feel dong bi would definitely of chosen to remain jh friend if she was forced to make a choice which does happen in some breakups

totvornottotv

the pregnancy didnt happen it was only a red herring for the audience and to add more drama / weight to the breakup and reconciliation on the friendship between jh and db turning into something more i would say that its possible for the friendship to turn into love however very difficult and would need a catalyst which hasnt happened yet if the drama where longer i feel they could try and explore it a little better i dont agree thats it is a total 180 more like a 90 degree turn because the drama has established certain traits in their friendship which leave me with the impression it could develop into something more especially when dong bi was talking to jh about how she introduced hy to jh it appeared to me as thou the drama was illustrating her regret over not making a move to start a relationship with jh in almost all korean dramas one side dosent realize they are in love with someone until the end of the series

totvornottotv1

she didnt have sex with him and jh and hy where broken up dong bi has already been the the peace maker between hy and jh on several occasions because they are a horribly dysfunctional couple where hy lies to her fiance uses her friend as a sounding board and dosent care about what is really going on with her friends life if it dosent relate to her also db IS CLEARLY JH BEST FRIEND they have the closer relationship so her loyalty should be to him and not her dong bi has done nothing wrong they brokeup because of their own issues

totvornottotv

i dont agree i feel hae yoon is very self involved and dosent really care about dong bis life because she is a very selfish person it always has to be her way she also lies repeatedly to her fiance about seeing her ex and her history with him now he isnt just her boyfriend but her fiance so she shouldve had the talk with him by this point instead of concealing her history from the person she is supposed to love and trust the most in the world her double standard for truth is very concerning in their relationship also the main catalyst for the breakup was hae yoons insecurities and their inability as a couple to compromise and work towards solutions while being truthful with each other and their families also as a side note i like dong bi however as a result of this episode i think theyre friendship is almost completely dead

totvornottotv

jung hoon may be better off with dong bi because her personality is more suited to his however since as dong bi says you are the star im just the supporting actress i dont see them ending up together

cazbo

ommigod i agree !!! she appears to be jealous of her friend.

totvornottotv

dong bi didnt do anything to cause the breakup so she isnt at fault for breaking her friends up for her own benefit it just turned out this way without her intervention so i dont see why you hate her infact she has always been better friends with ih anyway when she left who was the person she told where she would be and what she was doing jh not hy at no point did she make a move to breakup their relationship in fact she was always the one who gave hy advice on how to patch things up she even went out of her way to get them back together after the first breakup

totvornottotv

i dont agree i feel hae yoon is very self involved and dosent really care about dong bis life because she is a very selfish person it always has to be her way she also lies repeatedly to her fiance about seeing her ex and her history with him now he isnt just her boyfriend but her fiance so she shouldve had the talk with him by this point instead of concealing her history from the person she is supposed to love and trust the most in the world her double standard for truth is very concerning in their relationship also the main catalyst for the breakup was hae yoons insecurities and their inability as a couple to compromise and work towards solutions while being truthful with each other and their families also as a side note i like dong bi however as a result of this episode i think theyre friendship is almost completely dead